TRUSTing FRIENDSHIP

I haven't posted in a while, and I had no good definitions of words...until today, I discovered the definition of trust...

Trust is the basic structure of friendships and relationships. Without this connection between the two, this borderline would not exist. Belief and lies would blend. Trust is a hard thing to gain, and an easy thing to lose. Simple miswording can lead to a loss in trust, and it can take a long time to rebuild that trust...

Friendship is a close relationship between any two people built upon trust. Friends are those who are always there for you, friendship is the fact that you know that they will be there for you.

My friend discovered her boyfriend was cheating on her for his EX-girlfriend. Her friends were willing to beat up the stupid boy. (Guys and girls), but decided not to. She discovered that shes much better off without him, and is thankful for friends who are willing to help her through her dilemma.

My other friend had met this one girl at a dance, they had became great friends. He started to like her, until she told him she had a bofriend. At which point he still liked her, but not as much as he once had. Then his friend told him that she had been flirting with several other guys, then of which he regretted being such a fool and decided to not follow that cause...

My friend had always been shy, never opening to anyone, until he met this one girl. He was able to open up his life and explain things to her, and give her his secrets. He asked her to not tell anyone about the things said. One day one of his friends came up to him and made an inappropriate gesture about secrets. He realized this trust had been broken, he never spoke to her again. To this day, he still does not speak to her...

Do not ruin your friendship by breaking the promise of trust...

-Sean Dylan

TEASING our INDIVIDUALISM and our IMPERFECTIONS

Teasing is the act of judging one, and persecuting them orally, to free the teaser of their own insecurities.

All our life, we've always been teased on what we look like, what we wear, what our roots are, our lives in general.

But all of these are just part of our Individualism, and can't be stopped as such. For one can't stop who they are.

These flaws and Imperfections within our own body and life are our perfections. Each human is flawed, and as such flaws, they make us perfect.

Being human means being perfect in your imperfections.
Being perfect means you're different, that you stand out.

As paradoxical as that sounds, do not think of it from a literal point of view, but think of human nature.

My entire life, I had always been made fun of for being different, being myself. But over the course of years, I've learned to grow up and deal with the fact that I will always be different than those who tease me, but that they also have their own imperfections.

I learned after picking on my friend, that I can't spread this teasing. Just because one is different, doesn't mean that you can make fun of them. Unless you both obviously know you're both joking.

-Sean Dylan

INDEPENDENCE

When you don't have to rely on anyone else except yourself is when you can declare independence.

But independence also means being able to go out and do things on your own without other's consent, and being able to do that is a wonderful thing, it means looking like a fool and not caring what others think. Living your life to its fullest.

I've earned my independence from my parents, I do need to rely on them, but, I don't like to.

I've earned my independence from my friends, I act ridiculous when I'm with them, they feel embarassed, but will still remain my friends.

I've earned my independence from my community, helping others out through Key Club.

-Sean Dylan

DEJA VU

The experience of Deja Vu is having a sensation of familiarity, of having been in a certain place before, when your mind becomes blank and you try to remember if you had been here, and done this before...

Although in my case...
Deja Vu is a series of stories I am writing, for fun of course.

So far I've only been able to write one story, I plan on writing 6 other stories.

: Promnesia {Scientific name for Deja Vu} [Prequel]
: Deja Vu
: Clockwork
: Mnemophobia {Fear of Memories}
: Chronophobia {Fear of Time}
: Remnants
: Father Time

Quite Alot...yes.

The series is about a teenager named Alex Monroe who discovers he has the ability to turn back time, and redo things, to change the outcome of events, to a maximum of a few hours. But in doing so, he severly alters the timeline of events that should have happened. Because of this, he causes the events that are about to transpire...

Speaking of Deja Vu, when I originally wrote the story, back in my sophmore year, I based the events around the beginning of '09. And the events actually started December 30th '08. The events are overlapping with me right now.

For More Information Check Out My Other Blog: http://wrongtimeline.blogspot.com/

-Sean Dylan

PROMISES and PUNISHMENTS

Promises are when one makes an oral statement to fulfill someone for someone else, no matter how long it takes.

Punishments are when one does something wrong, incorrectly, they must recieve the consequences of such actions.

My parents do not uphold either of these. Don't you hate it when parents do this? They promise you something, but you don't get it? When you do something wrong, you know the consequences, your parents say that you're grounded, but they do not uphold this consequence...

These two tie together more than you think.

When you promise your friend, or anyone you know something, make sure you keep that promise. If you don't the punishment will result in a loss of trust between you two.

-Sean Dylan

Pesty PESSIMISM

Pessimism is the act of being pessimistic, or looking down at life, giving up in another sense. If one has this trait, then that pertains to the survival of life. Then there is no point.

Adele clearly defines this in "Chasing Pavements"
"Should I give up for should I keep chasing pavements even if it leads me nowhere."

My grandmother and grandfather called on the phone, my mom told me to talk to them, to wish them a happy and healthy new year, because "they could die at any minute." I told my mom not to think like that, but she gave me some stupid story about how she knew this lawyer and she saw him everyday, and spoke with him everyday, then he suddenly died of leukemia. That got me really mad, she thought with a horrible state of mind. I know what death is, I know it can strike, I know to expect it. But I do not want to think about it until it is time.

But in this world, there is always an opposite to everything we have.
Pessimistic<>Optimistic

-Sean Dylan

LOVERS in my bed.

Lovers are two people who are the two people in the mutual symbiosis of love, and those two people celebrate their love in many ways, kissing, holding hands, and such other ways...

The tender act of making love is a very great thing, but only at the right time and right place...

So, I had a new years party last night, fun, fun. But everytime I have a party, I make my bed, then people go in and screw it up. My parents get really annoyed at that, especially if its a boyfriend and girlfriend. My parents gave me this talk on how I shouldn't invite one person because they'll invite their girlfriend/boyfriend. Even though both of them are my friends.

I, personally do not mind you guys going and kissing, just don't go into the bathroom together and lock the door and say one of you has a "bloody nose" or "washing your hands"

Not that *I* am skeptical about what you did in there, just my mom said, it doesn't take THAT long to wash your hands, and why two of you? Luckily my mom didn't know about someone's "Bloody Nose."

So, you guys know who you are. Remember you four. STAY SAFE, use protection.

And, not in my bed.

-Sean Dylan

TIME to start 2009

Years consist of 365 days, or 366 every four years. But New Years Eve is the same staying up to 12am each night. This New Years Eve was okay, as everything else in my life. Why do we continue to celebrate a New Year?

Time is a measurement of how long we have survived in the world, and how long we will continue to survive.

We celebrate the New Year as a look back on everything that has happened to us within the past 365 days. Its amazing how we have survived for so long, and continue to. We all think that 2009 is alot, but think of how old the universe is... billions of years old. Its amazing.

New Year means a fresh start, speaking in terms of TIME. But among those around us, there can't be change, they know how we are, how we act. This is why we start resolutions at the beginning of the New Year. Fresh starts to live our lives. Turn over a new leaf.

My resolutions are to:
-Maintain and sustain at least a 3.5 G.P.A. (Shameful for an Asian)
-Find love.
-Work out and gain more muscles.

This has been another year where I haven't celebrated New Years with my family up in Canada, but despite that, my friends and I celebrated in my home. But I've noticed something... Our technological revolution has certainly changed our lives. As soon as the clock struck 12:00:00 am. Immediately everyone sent mass texts to eachother, forwarded those mass texts to other people to save them time, and so on. Then everyone called eachother through the phone. Its amazing, just how things have changed so much within a few years...

-Sean Dylan

LOVE-ing the Past Year...

The new year rolled in all around the world, as the fog rolled into the city, turning visibility to a stunning 10 feet maximum...

Over the past year, there has been love gained, love lost, love found, love lied.

Love is a complex structure, requiring complete "mutual" symbiosis between both partners...although more along the male side, having to pay for everything, but I'll speak of that some other time...

Loneliness is a parasite that eats at you everyday, and I'm just proposing the idea of having someone to be there with you, throughout everything in your life...not the false sense of togetherness as in a certain type of "relation."

When seeing others together it brings a sense of lonelyness and jealousy to one's heart. Only because that one feels loneliness and left out...

Being a (teenage) guy is hard, in part due to the fact of our credibility within our peers...
its even harder when there is affection being tossed around.

How do guys vent out if they like a certain person? Do they confide within a good friend? Or do they come right out and let the person they like know that they have feeling for that person...

Relationships are hard, I've seen it within friends and family, and even in myself. Humans always desire to live their life alongside someone they love...but how does it become a sucess and stay sucessful?

-Sean Dylan

LIFE is tough, just survive

Welcome to the blog of Sean Dylan, I'll be posting up subjects about my life, and observances that I've seen. We need to open our eyes and view these observances, inorder to learn how to live our lives more efficiently...

Some things about me.
-I'm a junior in highschool. (Class of 2010)
-I was born in Canada.
-Moved to American at a young age.
-Moved several times, at least once every two years.
-Never met my biological father.
-Vietnamese, and apparently Chinese due to my biological father.
-No siblings, except for stepbrother and stepsister.
-A September born child.
-I have written two stories, and plan to write more.

There is alot more, but I'll let you discover them through my posts.

Life is all about surviving through it, it teases you and taunts you with its objects. Those who overcome those obstacles are those who are worthy to keep going and to keep going. Becoming pessimistic means that one is willing to give up everything that they have worked for, and they deserve to stay pessimistic if they are willing to becoming so in the first place.

-Sean Dylan